When I started reading and writing here in the forum I was using default=male, then I realized i was simply surrounded by womens and switched to default=female
The puzzling thing is that if you look at [More Stats] you will see this:
Male to Female Ratio: 46:1
That's why I did a manual count - between Bunts, Craig, Dean, Howard, Keith, Matteo, Stuart, et al on one side, and Caro, Helen, Janet, Joan, Kathy, Randi, Rosemary, Su, et al on the other side, neither gender can be limited to 2% of participants.
(Women are chattier - only 8 of the top 20 are men.)